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Most women avoid romantic losers as though they were plague carriers, but some are prepared to accept there may be advantages of dating a romantically inexperienced man. 8 such reasons are presented below.

Kebanyakan Cewe kurang suka dengan Cowo yang culun karena dianggap "gak banget", tetapi ada beberapa yang sebaliknya karena 8 alasan berikut:



You can dye him your colour:
If you’re his first girlfriend you can have him dress and date how you want. It’s best not to be too forceful and take into account his wishes as you move him closer to what you want though.

Kamu bisa 'memperlakukan' si Cowo sesuai dengan selera kamu, sesuka kamu. Mereka cenderung lebih mau mengikuti apa yang diinginkan si Cewe.
Tetapi tolong tetap hargai mereka sebagai Cowo.
Kalau si Cewe masih punya hati dan perasaan, tentunya tidak akan menuntut hal-hal yang di luar kemampuan si Cowo.



He’ll be delighted with simple things like you cooking for him or holding his hand:
These might be expected by people with lots of experience dating but a romantic novice should be moved by them all the same.

Cowo seperti ini cenderung lebih menghargai hal-hal kecil yang dilakukan oleh si Cewe.



You can avoid being compared to his last girlfriend:
As he likely never had one, he’ll not compare you to his last. For example your cooking or what you want to do for birthdays, etc. But you should avoid comparing him to your last boyfriend too – upset men tend to get jealous.

Kemungkinan untuk dibandingkan dengan mantan jauh lebih kecil, karena mereka belum pernah pacaran sebelumnya karena kurang laku.
Meskipun begitu, tetap hargai mereka dengan tidak membandingkannya dengan mantan kalian.



You can pursue an innocent romance:
He might be nervous or awkward on dates. But you can also relive your “innocent” school romances. For a woman looking for “pure love,” a novice might be just the thing?

Menjalin hubungan dengan Cowo semacam ini memberikan kesan berbeda ketika dating, yaitu kesan cinta monyet.
Jauh dari kesan playboy, banyak mantan, dan sebagainya, aura kesetiaan dan 'innocent' yang mereka pancarkan lebih kuat.



You needn’t be jealous of other women:
With an experienced guy you never know when he’ll make a pass at a girl. But with a greenhorn he probably doesn’t know how to talk to girls properly so there’s no danger of that. On the other hand, he’s more likely to be jealous of you so watch what you do with other guys.

Karena mereka kurang pengalaman dalam mencari cinta, justru itu mereka mempunyai kemungkinan yang sangat kecil untuk selingkuh bahkan mereka kurang bisa untuk nyeleweng apalagi menjadi playboy.



You needn’t use relationship tactics on him:
You don’t have to bother playing hot and cold with him by being deliberately nice or nasty to get what you want. In fact doing this might backfire as he might overreact to such stimuli. Perhaps best to be straight with him.

Tidak perlu menggunakan berbagai taktik untuk menguji kesetiaan mereka, mereka senantiasa berusaha untuk mengerti apa maunya kamu.



He’ll remember your anniversaries and events:
When you started dating you probably cared about these things at first. It’s like that for a guy with no experience so he’ll care about them a lot. He may not know what to expect so you can tell him what you want him to do too.

Mereka umumnya lebih ingat dengan hari ulang tahun atau hari-hari spesial si Cewe karena mereka lebih peduli dengan hal itu, sebagai bagian betapa seriusnya dan begitu menghargainya suatu hubungan.



You don’t have to worry about him cheating on you:
He’s likely to take romance seriously so the chances of him cheating are low. However, romance can open a man’s eyes so you’d better watch him closely.

Umumnya Cowo semacam ini sangat serius dalam menjalin hubungannya dan menghargai si Cewe, jadi jangan khawatir dia akan selingkuh.